including private ones and came across an old post that still rings true. *names/character references have been removed*
A guy that holds your hand without giving you gifts, without saying he likes you, is a jerk.
If he blows hot, blows cold now, before anything even begins, what will happen if I do get into a relationship with him. the unattainable is always more desirable. I put them on a predestal and they step all over me; I am too available to them.
I deserve a guy who is totally into me right from the start and someone who I totally like. Never get into a relationship without being totally smitten by that person. It doesn’t matter if he is the nicest person ever to you. if I don’t have romantic fantasies about him, he is NOT the one.
Never admit to a guy that I like him aka confess my feelings unless he confesses first. It never does work out. (Mainly because he gets the upper hand and takes me for granted; or he just doesn’t see me as a romantic interest).
A guy that makes physical advances on me without saying outright that he likes me IS taking advantage of me. 在吃我的豆腐。No exceptions to this rule.
if he can’t commit to you, is there a point to holding on to him?
